dangerous affairs

Friday, May 26, 2006

Grammar aside, this blog is worth a read, if just to marvel at the paradox of bisexuality - how, as it evolves, people are taking it simultaneously more and less seriously. The author of the blog has a boyfriend of a few years, but is starting to find herself attracted to a girl. She seems cognizant enough to acknowledge that the "budding relationship" between herself and the girl is an "underground affair", but I can find no evidence of any guilt or self-blame that would surely be present if she were making out on the sly with another guy - right? Or have I again overestimated other people's grasps of what are (to me) basic concepts like fidelity and monogamy? I somehow get the impression that this "affair" doesn't bug her as much because she's cheating on her boyfriend with, like, whoa, a girl, and so the novelty of the whole "oh man, am I lesbian now? Lesbians also people okay! Anyway gender/sexuality/species shouldn't matter!" is completely outweighing the fact that she's cheating on her boyfriend.

Sigh chip on shoulder, chip on shoulder. Chocolate-covered potato chip. Yummy.

Also, I can't believe Las Vegas Sands won the casino bid! This will make the Sentosa contest really exciting.

Lastly, X3: very awesome. I love a good smashbang blockbuster. And Ben Foster - so. damn. cute. And see if you can spot Frasier! Am totally watching this again (don't worry Dom!).

posted by zyn :: 10:53 PM :: 6 Comments :: permalink


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